My name is Amy.  I had twins at the age of 19.  After the breakdown of my relationship with the twin’s father when they were 8 months old, I was feeling very vulnerable and lost.  My health visitor told me to look around for some centres that would help me to meet other parents that needed a helping hand.  I found HOMESTART Wakefield!

They gave me the opportunity to have a volunteer to come and have a couple hours with me a week to help me get out of the house and feel somewhat normal again.  My volunteer was amazing.  She helped me with almost everything regarding the twins from going to the shops to just having a real conversation with another adult.  Not only did Home-Start offer me a volunteer but they also had a stay and play group I could attend.  Everyone was so welcoming and I felt like I had a purpose again.  I felt like I could get on with my life and be normal just like all the other families who attended group.

As time went on I had a few personal troubles.  Home-Start was always a safe place, that one place I went to once a week just for an hour or so where I felt equal to everyone else.  It made me realise I wasn’t the only one who was struggling with day to day life.  It gave me a chance to talk to other parents while the children played.  The twins came on so much with their speech and everything with the activities Home-Start did with the children.

The twins are now in full-time school and I have a nearly 2 year old who also now attends the group.  He absolutely loves it and I have gained some wonderful friends from the group.

It’s safe to say that I would be lost without the help from Home-Start.  I was in such a terrible place and they were my light at the end of the tunnel.  The woman who now runs the group that I attend is wonderful.  She makes everyone feel so welcome, we have a laugh and I would honestly say Home-Start is like a second family to me.  I wouldn’t have achieved half the things that I have if it wasn’t for them and I can guarantee that neither would any of my children.  They are an amazing charity who give so much and expect nothing in return.

All in all HOME-START has saved me.